How do you deal with backstabbing friends?

My friends Leslie Kohut, Danielle Cole, and Shelby Lanterman are very mean to me and do mean email stuff to be behind my back. I was able to enter Leslie's email once, but now I cant cuz she changed the password. I really want revenge or to somehow get rid of her, but how?How do you deal with backstabbing friends?
The mature thing to do is walk away from this situation and make some new friends. Trying to get revenge on them only brings you down to their level.





Anyway, the best revenge is the kind they can even pin on you... say like 'accidently' misplacing a few of their things. Not stealing, just misplacing. Makes them frustrated!How do you deal with backstabbing friends?
hello there Mimi Cornish its Lilly*leslie* u kno in ur paper thing and we did nuthin 2 u ur the real backstabber we help u and this is wut we get? and ur only doing this because you want attion and because ur a backstabbing lying nasty*A.K.A a mother ****** *****!*

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If they are backstabbing, then the way I look at it , is that they are definately not worth while as having as friends
change your email and disassociate yourself from those hefers.
are they really you're friends. I suggest just ignore it cos all their doing it trying to get a reaction out of you.
You just did...shame on you for giving their full names. What kind of back-stabbing friend are you?
THEY AREN'T YOUR FRIENDS . YOU ARE THEIR WHIPPING POST . GET OUT NOW AND CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY . FRIENDS DON'T DO THAT TO OTHER FRIENDS .
Revenge is not the answer. It will only bring ill health and pain to yourself...not anyone else. While you are still holding this grudge, they have moved on to bigger and better things.
i had the same problem you gotta stand up for yourself if you can cuss say it how it is hit 'em asswipes once or twice call 'em; ******* or somethinh like dat
just leave them alone. stop calling emailing texting etc. theyll get the picture. you dont need em if they aint f***in, feeding or financin you.
i would recommend new friends. all of that stress isn't good for anyone.
If their any real friends they wouldnt be doing that. You really shouldnt do anyhting cuz that will make you the same as they are. If they keep on doing it find new friends.
Don't get involved. You'll only add to your stress level and never really resolve anything. Go to the library and check out the book entitled ';When Anger Hurts: Quieting the Storm Within'; and read it.
Obviously there's no trust, so how can you guys be friends?





I'd say move on.
I feel bad for you hon. I would tell you to trust very few but alot of people will put their 2 cents in about that. Just watch your back in all areas of life. People are strange animals.
Make new friend and let others know what terrible friends they were. That way the only friends Leslie, Danielle, and Shelby will have is each other.
Danielle told me that is was just Leslie who was doing the email stuff. I know what the new password is but I have promised not to tell anyone. Sorry.
Girl to those bitches to kiss your *** and got o hell. You don't need friends like that. Find new ones, get a hobby and move on, they certainly have.
You shouldn't be posting their full names on this website. That is just plain stupid and dangerous also.


If they are that bad then don't hang out with them. Find new friends. Rediscover and old friend. Don't waste precious time focusing on revenge. That will get you nowhere.
abruptly and quickly treat them as though they do not even exist.
How do you consider these people to be your friends? Were they ever your friend? How long were you all friends b/f You found out that they were doing this and when did they start being mean to you. I do not know if these people should have ever been considered your friends b/c they seem to be nasty people at work or school--more of acquaintances instead of friends. You just need to confront them and try to understand that people are often mean to others who they are jealous of and sometimes people are just plain mean for no real excuse. So just talk to them and find out and let them know how you feel--if they are important to you.
SORRY TO HEAR THAT. FIRST OFF, LOOK UP THE WORD FRIEND IN THE DICTIONARY. SECOND, DON'T LOWER YOURSELF TO THEIR LEVEL. THIRD, ALLOW YOURSELF TEN MIN. TO BE SAD AT THE LOSS OF WHAT USED TO BE A GOOD FRIENDSHIP AND THEN MOVE ON. HOLDING ONTO ANGER, HATE, DISAPPOINTMENT, AND SADNESS ARE ALL NEGATIVES TO YOUR EMOTIONS. LOOK FOR OTHERS THAT ARE MORE INTELLIGENT AND LESS DRAMATIC. LIFE'S TOO SHORT TO HAVE BACKSTABBERS ANYWHERE IN YOUR LIFE.

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How do you deal with Jealous Friends?

I can't help but think that my friends are jealous of me, when it comes to almost every aspect of our college lives. Most of their comments are about my attire, which they think is too ';preppy/casual/well-put together';. One said, ';I make them look bad by the way I dress';, ';they feel weird hanging out with me etc';. I go to parties with them and people (esp. unknown girls) come up to me and introduce themselves...which always angers them. This behavior is annoying. What is your take on it?How do you deal with Jealous Friends?
tell them they need to get over it and you're sorry if you are confident and can dress. And if they don't like it you can make new friends because you don't need people trying to drag you down with them because they are insecure.











please answer mine it's long but i spaced it out so it's not boring and it's very important to me.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>How do you deal with Jealous Friends?
Try to point out to them the good things about there life too. Tell them that even though they are jealous of you and your life seems perfect compared to there's that every ones lives have there ups and downs. Today there life may seem way worse then yours, but in a few days there life might be just as good. No one has a perfect life, and right now there's might seem way worse then yours, but it will get better. It will always get better.
They are not truly your friends if their jealous and make bad comments on how you dress, people who you keep around you that are always jealous of you will only hold you back and get on your nerves, i would say let them be jealous or drop them
They are jealous because you are getting all the attention.

How do you deal with backstabbing friends?

My best friend, that i've known for 4 yrs., sends me text messages cursing at me and whatever. But, I said nothing to her but, i miss you and gotta see u soon. She was my best friend, and now its like i cant believe her. She put her other friend before me, brittany, even though i had her back thru everything!How do you deal with backstabbing friends?
I would leave her alone. Maybe it's just a sign that she's not a good person and be careful of her. I would say maybe get a new best friend because it looks like this one doesn't deserve you ! i found out my best friend was talking about me behind my back and just being fake we been best friends for 4 years. I cried because she was the person i trusted most and was closest to closer than my sisters. I got a new best friend now and trust her completely. leave her alone she's not really your best friend !!





';I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust noone but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.';


鈥?Marilyn MonroeHow do you deal with backstabbing friends?
try to talk to her about it and why she is upset.
dump her. she has never been your friend
How do you deal with backstabbing friends? Simple, you don't.
Just keep being a friend. Don't worry so much about Brittany and don't make a big deal out of it. In the meantime make other friends. Your friend knows you and knows you'll be there for her. She'll come back to being your friend. In the meantime have fun with your new friends. Just don't stop being a friend just because your friend is a bit immature. She can do well to learn from you. Be the better person and you will draw people like yourself to you.
if talking to her about it doesnt work deck her in the face . thats what i would do if she's a ***** about it .
The hardest thing to do is to ';IGNORE'; some one or someones remarks.


But trust me it is the most powerfully medicine.


It will drive your adversary Absolutely crazy.


The Only way to fight.


Do not ever answer and acknowledge their remarks.


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You give her a new title. Ex-Friend.


Life is too short to be bothered by insignificant people who claim to be your friends.


I know 4 years seems like a long time to you now but it's a flash in the pan as you get older. I have jeans older than that. Shoot I am sure I have canned food older than that.
She is NOT your best friend. BFFs don't do that kind of stuff. Go find other people out there that have the decency to treat you well.


I know you had her back but she so does not have yours!

What is the deal with female friends?

I am a nice, smart mid-20 something female. For some reason all the girls I have become friends with in the last several years have all turned out to be back stabbing beezies. Most recently this girl who acted like a friend tried to get with my boyfriend. Do any other females encounter this? How do I meet nice female friends?What is the deal with female friends?
Well I have had my share of maneating friends, but I have a few that I know are my friends and they will be forever. We set ground rules and one of them is that we dont sleep, or kiss, or date the others man. My friend tried joking about me going out with her ex and I said I could never kiss a guy she had kissed. The women you encounter are not friends, but usually there are signs. One friend of mine in HS started dating my bf, it started with her getting his number from my phone book and calling him. I was furious that he went along with it! It ended up not working out with her and well he tried coming back to me but he was too late. And that friend was forever on my bad list, and still is to this day. She did the same to my other friend and she has been axed. Women can be catty at times. Just dont give up you will find your new BFF!What is the deal with female friends?
ha im a girl too. %26amp; same thing happened to me. A girl i was best-friends with for 16 years me %26amp; her stopped talking a few month's ago. I just think girls are too much alike, %26amp; once you think you can trust them all of a sudden something happends. i yet to come across a girl i can call my bestfriend so idk i wish i had one
Yes, I have had a few friends do that to me. But there are girls out there who will really care about you. The hard part is finding them and knowing if you really can trust them. I have a few friends who I know would NEVER backstab me. But... you have to be a good friend first in order to get a good friend.

Help!! How to deal with a friends family who had an accident?

I have a friend who a member of her family just had an accident. She's been a close friend for years and she's been in the hospital with her family member and I haven't seen her for a few weeks because I am going to school and working and haven't really had time but the main reason is I don't want to be in the way especially knowing a lot of family will be at the hospital and co-workers and friends. I don't know what to get her what would help, what to say, how to help.Help!! How to deal with a friends family who had an accident?
Ask her if there is anything you can do to assist the family.Help!! How to deal with a friends family who had an accident?
Ask how you can help, if there's anything you can do and try and bring a little laughtet into her life.

How do you deal with a friends significant other who you do not like?

I have a great friend with a mean other half and it is tough to do things as couples.How do you deal with a friends significant other who you do not like?
Ignore them. Odds are it won't last in the long run anyway. You'll be there for your friend long after they're gone. Assuming they're a good friend, of course.How do you deal with a friends significant other who you do not like?
kick that motherf'uckers teeth in and show him who the alpha is
- Do less things as couples
smuggle pills into her drink, then she'll probably mess it up.
I don't know but be civil anyway you don't want to hurt your friend.
tell that friend that you're not going to put up with her if she acts like that
Jeeze. The best you can do is just talk to your close friend about it. If he can't understand then there is nothing you can do without stepping on some toes.
tell your friend you dont like them and if ur gonna hang out u prefer thats hes not there


or you can just suck it up and try to have fun and try to like them
Suck it up if you care for your best friend. I'm not saying this to be mean or uncaring, but really it's the best way to deal with it. I had to deal with my best friend's boyfriend for over a year before they broke up. The sad part is even after they broke up I had to deal with him for another 8 months. And I'd hate to consider the possibility that if they were to work ut I'd have to deal with him for the rest of my life. *shudders* But, if it's for best friend... well its worth it.
I've been through this thousands of times. Tell your friend how you feel and if you really can't handle him/her either ignore him/her or hang out with you're friend when their boyfriend/girlfriend's not around. Oh and a lot of times friends can tell weather or not a person deserves the friend or not. So wait it out and you may be surprised on weather or not if they actually make it.
The simple fact is that its either worth it or its not. You just might not be able to do things as couples if its really not something you feel you can put up with. My good friends husband is the biggest jerk, and pushes all her friends away. I still visit her regularly and have our daughters play but I try to avoid her husband if I can. I still get to see her and spend time with her, occasionally even have a girls night. Were still great friends. I didnt want to tell her though that I didnt like him, or that I felt he was rude ect. because it might make her feel uncomfortable and defensive and like she has to defend him by not seeing me anymore. I didnt want that so I just stayed away from him.
i didnt like my best friends boyfriend for a verrrrry long time... even when he proposed i told her not to marry him, she married him they have a baby and he is like the best husband she could ever ask for... he takes care of her she doesnt have to work(her choice) and when he gets home he cleans and watches the baby so she can relax, he is an awesome dad and husband

How to deal with mean friends?

Hey! I sent out invites to a party i was having and a few people who used to be my friends found out. They are now yelling at me and being really snotty about the whole thing! What do I do with them? Should I invite them or not? What do I say to them?How to deal with mean friends?
Personally don't invite them. Here are 3 reasons why.


1.Your not friends any more


2.They shouldnt be concerned about what you do


3.Don't let them pressure youHow to deal with mean friends?
why you didn't invite them in the first place. there is always gonna be mean people in your life, like whenever you get a job you may have to deal with a mean boss. so get used to the comments that mean people make and analyze them, sometimes you can find things that you are doing wrong that you are not noticing when a mean person tells you. Sometimes they just want to make you feel bad, but just deal with it, and learn from the critics that other people make about you. but if you dont really want them at your party, just dont invite them, and ignore them if they are too mean.
I have a 14 year old daughter who has also had the same experience. This is tricky. Girls are just mean. I'm not sure why, but they just are, (try hard not to be one of them).





There are a couple of different things you could do. You could tell them that you are only allowed a certain number of friends because your mom said so, make her the bad guy. I'm sure she won't mind.





You could also remind them that you haven't been invited to all of their parties. It's best just to ignore their snotty comments and just ';kill them with kindness';.





Next time, you could just not send out invites and only tell a few of your friends just a few days ahead of time. I found that saved a lot of trouble.
Kill them with kindness but stand your ground. Let them know that as you have matured your selection, or circle, of friends has changed. A prime example would be the way they conducted themselves when they found out about your party. If they start yelling or cussing don't lower yourself to that level, excuse yourself and stroll away.
They'll probably think you're just inviting them because you want them to shut up. If you really want them at your party make up some phony story about how you thought you had enough invitations but you were a few short then give them there invitations. Or better yet, since there being so snotty don't invite them at all:)
Stand up for yourself...and don't let them treat you like that.


Let them know you are having some close friends over and you're entitled to do that...if you explain at all. they are owed no explaination in the first place. Just smile at them and say you're sorry, but maybe next time....If they straighten up their attitude--invite them next time,,if not--don't.


If they are causing that much trouble not being invited..you were right not to invite them.
Ask them to bring something that you don't need but would be nice.





Then if they do show, they will be part of the solution not the problem. If not who cares....





Tell them they are special so that is why you are asking them...if they ask..or you need to talk more.





By asking them to bring something they will feel special too..





Up to you if you want them there.


If you got room...why not..but ask them to bring something you do not need...


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In general for any situation,..








life is short..do what you want..but don't fret...





If in doubt DON';T





if you can't decide ---flip a coin.
you should not invite them cause then they are going to take control of you and start to punk you and you dont want that to happen. so what you do is tell them that they are not invited and tell them that i dont hang out with fake people! that is the best way to handle a a problem as a young lady!!
well i would tell them thats its my party and i can invite who i want to. if there your friends then they wouldnt be willing to yell at you because of something like this. i wouldnt invite them if there gonna act like that. there gay and they no it.
I don't think you should. If they were truly interested in being your friend, they would have asked you if they could come. It could be a reaction as well, maybe they missed you, but being humans they lashed out. You could try to talk to them first?
It doesn't sound like they are friends. Friends keep in touch even if they don't see each other. I would simply tell them this party is for my real friends and those are the people who communicate with even when there is no party involved.
Don't invite them!


Tell them that if they are going to act like that then they can not come at all but if they apologize then maybe you should CONSIDER inviting them. I hate when people are like that!
If you feel it will end the fight then invite them but if you think they will get nastier than stay away from them.
Dont invite anyone who is not a friend;there sour grapes over not getting an invite I guess
They used to be friends? Well their attitude confirms it.





Past tense. Bye Bye!
Only invite them if they're bringing Yahtzee.
Don't invite them! Just tell them that they aren't invited.
act as if nothing had happened and dont invite them. best of luck!
Mean friends are not real friends.
MY PARENTS CHOSE FOR ME SRY I'LL INVITE U TO THE NEXT ONE %26amp; ONLY A FEW PEOPLE ARE INVITED!!! WRITE BACK asap
Bang they friend
Get rid of them for good.They never were your friends.






Be strong!!





Let them all go phuqq themselves.






been their done that not going back i wouldnt invite them because they r rude

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