Hey!!!! how to deal with friends that are...........................鈥?on please.........?

actually, my closest friends are ones who are easygoing and speak without thinking.....they often think without speaking.....which often insults others and makes them feel hurt like me...........i mean they are great to be fun and i enjoy being with them.,..........but many a times.....they just speak anything without thinking...........I WANNA ASK HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM???????Hey!!!! how to deal with friends that are...........................鈥?on please.........?
Lol sometimes i speak without thinking but then some of my friends just tell me to shut up or insult me back. and i think that's good cuz ur not suffering inside and they tell me when im being annoying and im like ';i dnt care XD'; lolHey!!!! how to deal with friends that are...........................鈥?on please.........?
well there shud b no barriers in love and frndship ......





bt if thr sayings hurt u ..... then u must talk your way out with such frnds .......





tell thm what u feel make thm understand how the'r words affect u ....
Whats the problem. Let them talk. Discount the heavy ones and elevate the silly ones.
well.....this is a common thing with many people....


the best way is to make them realize at times tht u dindt liked it just by sitching over or diverting the talk instantly to someother topic...this way they also wont feel bad ....and to be honest it shouldnt affect u as u should react and listen to thing tht are of ur interest and the things u feel are wired u should ignore them....trust me with time ur friends if they really are thn they will understand it in few days only and its al upto u how u want ur friends to be with u.....





the bottom line is live ur life on uir terms and always try to be happy irrespective of what others are saying in front of u...if u feel happy and feel like smiling thn do so and if u feel tht they said somthing wired thn just ifnore it and move on....





important thing is tht dont say anything bluntly to them just chill relax and organise urself whn such event occur and move on..





take care... hope this advice helps u a little,...


if possible do reply back....





my email id is chris17_alec@yahoo.co.in
if you have a thick friendship, what you should do is just tell them that if they spak such a way it hurts, if they r very true to you they will accept it ..


ok now u go and talk to them first else the situation will go worse if they dont change,....
I {being proffessional} answer u that just answer them in the same way.... that would keep their mind stable
if you are a friend you are suppose to tell them what they cant tell themselves. thats what you are expected to do