I have two good friends who are smart, nice people but they've just made (what I think is) a stupid mistake. They've both started drinking...and they like it and don't regret getting drunk at all. They say their hangovers were bearable and that they want to do it again, and try drugs to just for that 'high' feeling. I've told them it's stupid, but they just don't regret it. They're planning to get drunk again soon, and I just don't think I can deal with their craziness! They're good kids, so good that I think that they're trying to 'rebel' or whatever...so how should I talk them out of it?How do you deal with friends who drink?
the more you talk the more they will do it their only trying out new things its natural to experiment when young just keep an eye on them and watch they dont get out of hand if your really worried seek advice from an adult you can trustHow do you deal with friends who drink?
the best thing to do is not try and talk them out of it. they have to learn on their own that things that are fun at first can have dangerous consequences.
if you try and tell them that they shoudnt do what they are doing they are likely to rebel against you.
try and be there for them, but distance yourself when you cant handle the drunkenness.
set limits on your time with them and take care of you...
Try talking to their parents or like your parents to talk to their parents... maybe at first they would be mad... then they willl think that you did them a HUGE favour!!
HOPE YOU TAKE MY ADVICE!!
Tell them if they want to drink, you wish they wouldn't, but you aren't going to start and go get some other friends to hang with-Boozers are losers
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