How do you deal with friends that just leave you when they see their other best buddies?

For example, you have this friend and he/she is friends with almost everyone, then when you start talking with them your friend just saw one of their other best buddies and just leaves you and doesn't even gesture to follow them to talk with them. i don't know if anyone understands this but if you do please give me your opinnion and help me deal with this problemHow do you deal with friends that just leave you when they see their other best buddies?
Dear Gina B,





No doubt this insensitivity from this so-called friend of yours has hurt you. Apparently she thinks she is so great to be around that she tends to spread herself thin amongst those she is interacting with.





Which means, of course, that neither you nor anyone else, for that matter, is getting 100 percent of her attention which they deserve. If she wants to hang with the POPULAR group then let her.


They are a very shallow group. People like that, in my opinion, are afraid of being alone. So they tend to try and blend in with the in-crowds. Don't think for a minute that they are more interesting than what you have to offer someone.





You deserve someone who isn't going to abandon you every time they see someone or something that comes along that looks better or more interesting than you


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Personally, one time is all it would take for me. This is a form of emotional abuse. Why would you even consider hanging out with such a selfish self-serving person.?





Think better of yourself, and soon you will come to realize that she isn't and never was worth your attention and time,not the other way around. Trust me on this one.


Honestly now, what are you getting out of this friendship that you find so rewarding?





I hope this gives you a little insight.





Sincerely,





Marseille





P.S.. All you can do if you decide to dump this tacky person, is walk away from it and say that at least you gave it your best. That's all you really can do. Don't keep putting yourself in the situation where you know you're going to be let down and hurt.





Take good care.How do you deal with friends that just leave you when they see their other best buddies?
tell that person about how you feel and if they react negativ then their no best friend because a good friend wuld include you in everything once you addressed the situation
First off that isn't a good friend...that is someone always looking around to see what else is going on.. that is just plain rude....Get some new friends...