Saturday, August 21, 2010

How To Deal With Friends?

I have three freinds. One of them is really loserish. I don't want to classify people but it is pretty obvious. She wears sloppy clothes, and even though I am nice to her most of the time, she always has to put me down for her to feel even slightly good. Even if she says ';Just Kidding'; I still feel bad. She never thinks she has to say sorry ever, even if she did something wrong. I want to make other friends, but I feel like I can't - especilly when she is nagging me all the time. How do I get rid of her? Should I? How do I make new friends without seeming too e-a-g-e-r?How To Deal With Friends?
Wow, well i actually have a friend who puts everyone down all the time and he isnt so perfect. he thinks he is so ';higher'; than some people... well what i would say you do is, not in a bad way advice but, try to ignore them in some way, like just say ';oh actually i am kind of busy';, and just see new people. Ignore, thats simply it. if she does that to you, just say your not to perfect yourself or something, just say for example even if she talks about your shoes or something just say, ';you know at least i have shoes because alot of people around the world would be even happy to have some, try making new friends at school or chatting.... you can get back at her in a good way, she probly just has so much low self esteem. im sorry i dont know if it will help, but hopefully it does, Hey one thing for sure, that will help.......ask GOD for new friends and in time, TRUST ME, he will get you even more better friends. only in time ok, be patient....hope this helps...


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Just tell her you no longer want to be friends with her because you don't like the way she treats you
just dont sit with her at lunch and dont talk to her maybe u should to do her wut she does to u.....let her know wut it feels like!
Hey just tell her how U feel she, revenge, she will feel bad and keep away and maybe she will say sorry and change, or she wont say sorry and never talk to u she will leave u alone and u can get more friends!!!
I meen if she treats you that way just kick her out of your life and meet new people.make new freinds.
things happen like that ...i had a friend like that the thing was she was always around nag nag nag right... so i told her ';you respect me or dont be my friend at all'; and she started to respect me more and more..what i think you should do is comfront her and tell her whats on your mind and if she doesnt listen dont talk to her ever again...one more things friends come to you you never come to them so youll find someone that really wants to be your friend...
If she puts you down,correct het and tell her that you will no longer be her friend if she can't respect you.She is not a loser because of the way she dresses,that only signifies that she is a slob.She apparently has some self-esteem issues that causes her to feel that she has to make others feel badly in order to make herself feel good.If you talk to her about it and nothing changes,there is nothing wrong with ceasing communication with her on all levels.If she talks to you ignore her,she will eventually get the message that you won't put up with her crap anymore.New friends are easily made.If you want friends you have to first make yourself friendly.
You need to just let her go. Try to tell her in a good way about how you feel. If that doesn't work then just tell her striaght up how you feel. It's better to get it all out and over with. You make new friends by starting a conversation. Like talk about something that interest them. Find out stuff about them.
Obviously you are the support of a ';loser';. Best thing you can do is talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and that you really think she is wrong. As to be too eager about making friends dont' try and fit in or try to join a group, this will only make you seem like a ';new'; person, instead make people want to be with you. This can be accomplished by inviting people who have the same interest with you too places you both like, in all this your friend can tag along. Hope it helps

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