Personally don't invite them. Here are 3 reasons why.
1.Your not friends any more
2.They shouldnt be concerned about what you do
3.Don't let them pressure youHow to deal with mean friends?
why you didn't invite them in the first place. there is always gonna be mean people in your life, like whenever you get a job you may have to deal with a mean boss. so get used to the comments that mean people make and analyze them, sometimes you can find things that you are doing wrong that you are not noticing when a mean person tells you. Sometimes they just want to make you feel bad, but just deal with it, and learn from the critics that other people make about you. but if you dont really want them at your party, just dont invite them, and ignore them if they are too mean.
I have a 14 year old daughter who has also had the same experience. This is tricky. Girls are just mean. I'm not sure why, but they just are, (try hard not to be one of them).
There are a couple of different things you could do. You could tell them that you are only allowed a certain number of friends because your mom said so, make her the bad guy. I'm sure she won't mind.
You could also remind them that you haven't been invited to all of their parties. It's best just to ignore their snotty comments and just ';kill them with kindness';.
Next time, you could just not send out invites and only tell a few of your friends just a few days ahead of time. I found that saved a lot of trouble.
Kill them with kindness but stand your ground. Let them know that as you have matured your selection, or circle, of friends has changed. A prime example would be the way they conducted themselves when they found out about your party. If they start yelling or cussing don't lower yourself to that level, excuse yourself and stroll away.
They'll probably think you're just inviting them because you want them to shut up. If you really want them at your party make up some phony story about how you thought you had enough invitations but you were a few short then give them there invitations. Or better yet, since there being so snotty don't invite them at all:)
Stand up for yourself...and don't let them treat you like that.
Let them know you are having some close friends over and you're entitled to do that...if you explain at all. they are owed no explaination in the first place. Just smile at them and say you're sorry, but maybe next time....If they straighten up their attitude--invite them next time,,if not--don't.
If they are causing that much trouble not being invited..you were right not to invite them.
Ask them to bring something that you don't need but would be nice.
Then if they do show, they will be part of the solution not the problem. If not who cares....
Tell them they are special so that is why you are asking them...if they ask..or you need to talk more.
By asking them to bring something they will feel special too..
Up to you if you want them there.
If you got room...why not..but ask them to bring something you do not need...
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In general for any situation,..
life is short..do what you want..but don't fret...
If in doubt DON';T
if you can't decide ---flip a coin.
you should not invite them cause then they are going to take control of you and start to punk you and you dont want that to happen. so what you do is tell them that they are not invited and tell them that i dont hang out with fake people! that is the best way to handle a a problem as a young lady!!
well i would tell them thats its my party and i can invite who i want to. if there your friends then they wouldnt be willing to yell at you because of something like this. i wouldnt invite them if there gonna act like that. there gay and they no it.
I don't think you should. If they were truly interested in being your friend, they would have asked you if they could come. It could be a reaction as well, maybe they missed you, but being humans they lashed out. You could try to talk to them first?
It doesn't sound like they are friends. Friends keep in touch even if they don't see each other. I would simply tell them this party is for my real friends and those are the people who communicate with even when there is no party involved.
Don't invite them!
Tell them that if they are going to act like that then they can not come at all but if they apologize then maybe you should CONSIDER inviting them. I hate when people are like that!
If you feel it will end the fight then invite them but if you think they will get nastier than stay away from them.
Dont invite anyone who is not a friend;there sour grapes over not getting an invite I guess
They used to be friends? Well their attitude confirms it.
Past tense. Bye Bye!
Only invite them if they're bringing Yahtzee.
Don't invite them! Just tell them that they aren't invited.
act as if nothing had happened and dont invite them. best of luck!
Mean friends are not real friends.
MY PARENTS CHOSE FOR ME SRY I'LL INVITE U TO THE NEXT ONE %26amp; ONLY A FEW PEOPLE ARE INVITED!!! WRITE BACK asap
Bang they friend
Get rid of them for good.They never were your friends.
Be strong!!
Let them all go phuqq themselves.
been their done that not going back i wouldnt invite them because they r rude
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