Saturday, August 21, 2010

How do you deal with backstabbing friends?

My best friend, that i've known for 4 yrs., sends me text messages cursing at me and whatever. But, I said nothing to her but, i miss you and gotta see u soon. She was my best friend, and now its like i cant believe her. She put her other friend before me, brittany, even though i had her back thru everything!How do you deal with backstabbing friends?
I would leave her alone. Maybe it's just a sign that she's not a good person and be careful of her. I would say maybe get a new best friend because it looks like this one doesn't deserve you ! i found out my best friend was talking about me behind my back and just being fake we been best friends for 4 years. I cried because she was the person i trusted most and was closest to closer than my sisters. I got a new best friend now and trust her completely. leave her alone she's not really your best friend !!





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鈥?Marilyn MonroeHow do you deal with backstabbing friends?
try to talk to her about it and why she is upset.
dump her. she has never been your friend
How do you deal with backstabbing friends? Simple, you don't.
Just keep being a friend. Don't worry so much about Brittany and don't make a big deal out of it. In the meantime make other friends. Your friend knows you and knows you'll be there for her. She'll come back to being your friend. In the meantime have fun with your new friends. Just don't stop being a friend just because your friend is a bit immature. She can do well to learn from you. Be the better person and you will draw people like yourself to you.
if talking to her about it doesnt work deck her in the face . thats what i would do if she's a ***** about it .
The hardest thing to do is to ';IGNORE'; some one or someones remarks.


But trust me it is the most powerfully medicine.


It will drive your adversary Absolutely crazy.


The Only way to fight.


Do not ever answer and acknowledge their remarks.


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You give her a new title. Ex-Friend.


Life is too short to be bothered by insignificant people who claim to be your friends.


I know 4 years seems like a long time to you now but it's a flash in the pan as you get older. I have jeans older than that. Shoot I am sure I have canned food older than that.
She is NOT your best friend. BFFs don't do that kind of stuff. Go find other people out there that have the decency to treat you well.


I know you had her back but she so does not have yours!

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