Saturday, August 21, 2010

How do you deal with backstabbing friends?

My friends Leslie Kohut, Danielle Cole, and Shelby Lanterman are very mean to me and do mean email stuff to be behind my back. I was able to enter Leslie's email once, but now I cant cuz she changed the password. I really want revenge or to somehow get rid of her, but how?How do you deal with backstabbing friends?
The mature thing to do is walk away from this situation and make some new friends. Trying to get revenge on them only brings you down to their level.





Anyway, the best revenge is the kind they can even pin on you... say like 'accidently' misplacing a few of their things. Not stealing, just misplacing. Makes them frustrated!How do you deal with backstabbing friends?
hello there Mimi Cornish its Lilly*leslie* u kno in ur paper thing and we did nuthin 2 u ur the real backstabber we help u and this is wut we get? and ur only doing this because you want attion and because ur a backstabbing lying nasty*A.K.A a mother ****** *****!*

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If they are backstabbing, then the way I look at it , is that they are definately not worth while as having as friends
change your email and disassociate yourself from those hefers.
are they really you're friends. I suggest just ignore it cos all their doing it trying to get a reaction out of you.
You just did...shame on you for giving their full names. What kind of back-stabbing friend are you?
THEY AREN'T YOUR FRIENDS . YOU ARE THEIR WHIPPING POST . GET OUT NOW AND CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY . FRIENDS DON'T DO THAT TO OTHER FRIENDS .
Revenge is not the answer. It will only bring ill health and pain to yourself...not anyone else. While you are still holding this grudge, they have moved on to bigger and better things.
i had the same problem you gotta stand up for yourself if you can cuss say it how it is hit 'em asswipes once or twice call 'em; ******* or somethinh like dat
just leave them alone. stop calling emailing texting etc. theyll get the picture. you dont need em if they aint f***in, feeding or financin you.
i would recommend new friends. all of that stress isn't good for anyone.
If their any real friends they wouldnt be doing that. You really shouldnt do anyhting cuz that will make you the same as they are. If they keep on doing it find new friends.
Don't get involved. You'll only add to your stress level and never really resolve anything. Go to the library and check out the book entitled ';When Anger Hurts: Quieting the Storm Within'; and read it.
Obviously there's no trust, so how can you guys be friends?





I'd say move on.
I feel bad for you hon. I would tell you to trust very few but alot of people will put their 2 cents in about that. Just watch your back in all areas of life. People are strange animals.
Make new friend and let others know what terrible friends they were. That way the only friends Leslie, Danielle, and Shelby will have is each other.
Danielle told me that is was just Leslie who was doing the email stuff. I know what the new password is but I have promised not to tell anyone. Sorry.
Girl to those bitches to kiss your *** and got o hell. You don't need friends like that. Find new ones, get a hobby and move on, they certainly have.
You shouldn't be posting their full names on this website. That is just plain stupid and dangerous also.


If they are that bad then don't hang out with them. Find new friends. Rediscover and old friend. Don't waste precious time focusing on revenge. That will get you nowhere.
abruptly and quickly treat them as though they do not even exist.
How do you consider these people to be your friends? Were they ever your friend? How long were you all friends b/f You found out that they were doing this and when did they start being mean to you. I do not know if these people should have ever been considered your friends b/c they seem to be nasty people at work or school--more of acquaintances instead of friends. You just need to confront them and try to understand that people are often mean to others who they are jealous of and sometimes people are just plain mean for no real excuse. So just talk to them and find out and let them know how you feel--if they are important to you.
SORRY TO HEAR THAT. FIRST OFF, LOOK UP THE WORD FRIEND IN THE DICTIONARY. SECOND, DON'T LOWER YOURSELF TO THEIR LEVEL. THIRD, ALLOW YOURSELF TEN MIN. TO BE SAD AT THE LOSS OF WHAT USED TO BE A GOOD FRIENDSHIP AND THEN MOVE ON. HOLDING ONTO ANGER, HATE, DISAPPOINTMENT, AND SADNESS ARE ALL NEGATIVES TO YOUR EMOTIONS. LOOK FOR OTHERS THAT ARE MORE INTELLIGENT AND LESS DRAMATIC. LIFE'S TOO SHORT TO HAVE BACKSTABBERS ANYWHERE IN YOUR LIFE.
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