Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you deal with friends who talk bad about you behind your back?

It's so uncomfortable and annoying everytime these backstabbers come and say hi to you and put up those fake smile as if we're the greatest friends on earth. They thought you didn't know what they did to you behind your back but you knew.How do you deal with friends who talk bad about you behind your back?
Stop being friends with those hookers! Seriously! Just ignore them completly, when they say hi, dont waste your breath and say ';hi'; back because you know its a complete lie. When they walk by you, just pretend like you dont see them. Find some true friends, friends who wont backstab you, friends that are real and honest, and friends that are genuinly good people, there are tons of them out there. If they were really your friends, they woulnt be doing this in the first place, drop these losers.How do you deal with friends who talk bad about you behind your back?
Get new friends and have nothing to do with these guys.
u dont deal with them


if they are really your true best friends they shouldn't be talking behind ur backs
they are not your friends those are the type of people you dont keep in your circle
I would personally confront them and ask them why they felt that they had to talk behind your back and could not say it to your face. I would ask that they lose false smiles and gestures of kindness because they are obviously not a very good friend and then I would stay away from them.
Talk bad about them to their face I don't get uncomfortable, I love the fact at seeing them get uncomfortable at the fact that they don't intimidate me with their two faced back stabbing ways I love calling em out because their jaws usually drop and they start to stutter it's fun really.
Kick um to the curb. They aren't your friends.
They aren't your friends if they do that! Real friends stab you in the front! Ditch them. They aren't worth anyones time if they are 5hit talkers!
Their not your friend then. I f someone ruins your reputation, they are your enemy. Get rid of him or her.
Stop referring to them as friends. Because they're not.
She isn't your friend if she talks about you so I agree get new friends. And tell them by the way I know you B itches were talking about me.
Those aren't friends. Don't trust them as friends.
If you let them do it without saying any thing you deserve everything they say about you. But a real lady confronts drama ina sophisticated way. that will shut haters the f*ck up.9 times out of 10 they are not your friends anyway!
Cuss them out. And then get new friends.
get rid of them they are not really your friends if they talk about you behind your back there is a big difference between friends and associates a true friend is more like family. Females expeacially are famous for talking about there so called friends in life you may find in the end you have very few ';FRIENDS';. Not saying not to hang with these associates but just be aware of their actions and and expect them to do what they do.





There is a saying that people are put in your life for a reason ...


Sometimes its just for a season and occassionally its a lifetime.
They aren't being friends but backstabbers,why are you still friends with them?Leave them,find people that care about you and like you for who you are.Stop wasting your time with these people.People like that I've confronted with their behavior and usually moved on.True friends don't treat each other like that or trash each other.Chances are they are probably doing it to each other not just you.And the first ones to whine when it comes back to them,they can dish it out but usually can't take it.My advice,don't play the game and simply move on.You deserve better.
leave them as oon as possible coz they ll only hurt u.dun call them your frends.
Boo let me be the first to tell you anyone you catch talking behind your back is fake and you don't need them in your life. If these so called friends are letting certain individuals talk about you , you should cut them off because if they were your real friends they would defend you on the spot never mind any of the drama or B.S. remove phony people from your circle and I'm sure you'll have more reasons to smile
Be nice to them but at the same time U can let them know about everything you know..Trust me it hurt the most when u still be nice to them..
If they talk behind your back what makes you think they are your friends? Everyone needs friends but if that`s the best you can do then you may be better off on your own. Find some new people to make friends with.
a few things


talk to them and see if they lie to your face. if they lie to your face tell them they are so low class you will not even argue with them, but you will not be friends with them any more


there are many other people out there, that are looking for new friends


go


leave them


good luck


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