I think when she says that, she's just being insecure. You sound young (meaning teenagers, not 9), and a lot of people at that age are insecure about themselves. My best advice would be to tell her that everyone had different body types, and she's beautiful as she is. Point out some of her best features, and explain that it's how you carry yourself. If she's proud of who she is, takes pride in her appearance, it doesnt matter what she weights. People will notice her and not her weight if she's not sloppy. Do makeovers, get haircuts, help her pick out cute accessories and shoes.
You can always talk to her and if she wants to lose weight, help her be active, and if you eat out with her make sure its a healty place. Go rollerblading with her, keep swimming and throw in some races, play basketball, baseball, or soccor, and just have fun. That way, she doesnt look at it like she is working out. If you guys do activities together it will be fun for her, and she'll have better results.How do u deal with friends who r fat but ur really skinny?
I know this situation well....just tell her ';look...you're not fat ok? stop saying that'; or....what you could do is whenever she says ';look how fat i am'; just don't say anything....she'll get the point and stop saying it
i hate to be mean about it, but if someone is going to complain about being heavy, then they should either watch what they eat, or go exercising. if you want to make her feel better go out exercising with her. encourage it. it always helps when you have a buddy w/ you.
i have the same situation... just try to be supportive. maybe you can offer to work out w her so she has support in trying to lose weight
Ask her, if she's so concerned about her size, why won't she just DO something about it? Tell her to exercise, eat lots of raw vegetables, drink loads of water. It's also important to be mentally clean to be healthy. Just saying 'Oh no I'm fat' doesn't make God pity them and make them skinny. She has to do something. Also, by mentally clean, I mean be nice to people, try controlling anger etc. Trust me, it is REALLY helpful. A good mind is important for a healthy body. Next time she says I'm fat, tell her this. And tell her NOT to starve. Just don't overeat or eat too much junk
If you coose to yell this at her, then fine. If she still doesn't stop, then she has to learn the hard way. Dump her for some time and she'll understand her mistake.
you cant do nothing about it, its not your fualt, im sorry for sounding so harsh, but if you already tried to help her to make her feel better and if she keeps on going on and not accepting herself then thats when it becomes her problem
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