Monday, August 16, 2010

How to deal with friends having sex....?

ok im 16 and i've never had a real boyfriend or sex. and all my friends have boyfriends and are having sex and im starting to feeling left out. my dad tells me to worry about school and to not worry about a boyfriend because all they want it sex(at that age). but i want to wait for sex until im married..i don't know what to do.How to deal with friends having sex....?
Listen to your Dad. You'll end up being the only one of your circle of friends who has no regrets! You don't have sex to keep up with your friends. They will be the ones who end up pregnant, with a broken heart, getting dumped, etc. You will be the one who has shown maturity and will come out the winner!How to deal with friends having sex....?
Listen to your Dad. Other people's sex lives aren't any of your concern.
Sounds like you should get married, then have sex. All you need now is a victim, I mean, husband.
Concentrate on your studies and when the time is right you'll know. Until then, don't let it bother you. Hang out with your friends and have fun. Treasure your child hood--it goes by way too fast and you can never get it back once it's gone.
You do what you just said you wanted to do, wait till you are ready. You will get the bf in time and if then you deside not to wait, that is your choice. Don't expect my daugther to be a angel, but i do expect her to be smart.
wait and have sex with someone you really want to lose it to. don't do it because all your friends have, because you will later regret that. ';Good things come to those who wait'; that statement is more true than anything. trust me. i know.


sharing your virginity with someone is a big deal and you want it to be special. therefore, make sure it's with someone special


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You've answered your own question. Listen to your dad. Just wait until you're married to the right guy and it'll be worth waiting for. You shouldn't feel left out or pressured, be proud of going against the grain.
Just get it over with sex is not all that it's cracked up to be and the sooner you realize it the better. Get it out of your system and move on. There is no perfect guy so if you wait around for him you will be VERY disappointed at the time you wasted.
listen to your dad...but if you want a boyfriend..find the right one..the one that won't get you to do something you don't want to do, and is nice and treats you like you are human. but your friend that are having sex now, are making big mistakes...cause i'm sure, the person they're having sex with, is someone that they're not going to be with forever cause they're around your age.
Listen to your dad.
Listen to your dad he knows whats best! Trust me just DON'T have sex wait!!! Wait for the right person and other peoples sex lives should affect you! Be a leader NOT a follower!!!!
Your father is correct. You are only 16 years old and have your whole life ahead of you. Since you are in the High School Years, you must try to understand that these are the most critical years of your life. You should be concentrating on grades as your grades help pave the future for your success. If your grades are high enough, it can open the door for you to be able to go to college on scarlarships? College tuition is very expensive along with all the other costs that go along with it. Just feel fortunate that you have a dad that cares and is concerned about your future and your well being. He knows how guys think as he is a guy! He is an adult and although you might not understand now but you will later and you will thank him in years to come. It is ok to have male friends at 16, don't get me wrong. It is very healthy to have friends that are guys (I had many) but you do not need to have sex with any of them. If you find somebody you really care about and he cares about you, the best thing you can do is wait until after you are 18 years old to take it a step futher. Please listen to your father and do not care what you other friends might or might not be doing. They might not have the same support and love in their household that you have. I hope this helps.
then wait till you're married to have sex. Unfortunately you're at an age where you feel its important to fit in. That soon will past. It's okay to not do what everyone else is doing. If your friends are pressuring you and they ask you why you're not having sex, you ask them why they are, and see how uncomfortable or stupid they sound trying to justify their reasoning for having sex.... So.....Do you boo
No one wants to hear it or admit it, but your dad's right. Focus on what's important. Not some boy that'll be around temporarily. And you definitely shouldn't feel left out. BE PROUD! I waited til I was almost 19. I would have been ok with waiting longer too, now that I look back. Sex complicates EVERYTHING. So while your friends have to deal with that added stress, ENJOY the fact that YOU have your head screwed on straight!

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