Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you deal with discriminating friends?

I have become very successful through hard work and some of my friends who I meet at weekends have become very nasty in ways not apparently relating to my success. Some of them are strugglingfinancially and I genuinly want them to succeed, others seem to feel threatened. I have never been a jealous person so this is alien to me, but I'm left with a bitter taste in my mouth as I feel they want to see my on the scrap heap.How do you deal with discriminating friends?
The inadequates and insecure are always resentful of success and no matter what you do, will project their negativity's on you and claim that you are the one with the problem. Enjoy your success, make them appreciate that you are there for them and then distance yourself gradually from these people.How do you deal with discriminating friends?
this unfortunately is a fact of life concerning others. You can either ignore their attittude and pity them or cease mixing in their company
talk to them about it and if they continue to resent u get some new friends
Ignore them, they are just jealouse
Some people are never happy for others You need new buddies
Buy new friends!





You got the cash!!





In other words......s*d them if they cant be happy for you!!
Jealousy is hard to deal with.


True friends would have your best interests at heart and be happy for you, but such friends are few and far between.


Have you noticed that due to your success, you may have some ';hanger-on friends'; who will be quick to take a buck or two off you if you let them as well?


Just tell yourself you have worked hard, you deserve your reward and continue to work hard and be successful. True friends will stay, others will push off eventually.
I wouldn't be associating with people like that. Simple as...
just be yourself and they are really your friends they come around if not forget them
I guess they're not happy for you鈥?well, only you can tell if they're real friends or not.





But since you genuinely want something good to happen to them, then try something that'll help them. Don't spoil them or do something like letting them owe ridiculously large sums of money. Since they don't like the current you, who knows what they'd do.





Just keep on supporting them and watching them from the shadows. Go with them to find a good job, give them advice since you're successful, tell your own story of success, tell them that you did not achieve them with a snap. Maybe they'll realize they'll have to stop wasting time envying others and start working out a solution for themselves.
They do not seem to be that good a friend if you ask me, real friends don't count money they count on you when they need you as you can do when you need them.
This is such ashame. Jealousy is a nasty thing and only reveals itself in people who arent your true friends! If they were any kind of friends they would be happy for you and proud that your hardwork has paid off for you. Perhaps they should take a leaf out of your book and work hard and succeed themselves.


As for dealing with them, I would continue to be yourself and talk to them. Either that or drift away and find new friends who appreciate you for you.

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