How do you deal with friends who only want to be friends when the time is right for them?

omg ive been through this a bunch of times, with people making me feel less becasue they needed more time to be friends, or they said the timing was bad, or they were very busy lately or whatever. The truth is, at first I did let it get to me but in the end the truth is that instead of rethinking who you are, you should rethink who they are. So, as cheesy as this sounds, really stop pand evaluate if they are worth it. If they are, which although they may seem like it now they probably arent, then go find some new friends in the meantime, and make them jelous. Its just like playing hard-to-get but with your friends. I swear it works perefectly. Theyll get jelous dat you dont need them so theyll start talking to u. Now, give it some time, and dont give in 2 easily becasue then theyll be like oh ok good shes-hes still obsessed with me, and move on again. So dont give in 2 easily, and try to show them you can have fun without them. And never EVER beg them for their friendship, unless theyr worth it and you have more than because ur fun, as an excusee.


hope i helped!!


xoxo


ansersgurlHow do you deal with friends who only want to be friends when the time is right for them?
Find new friends. They are just users. They are taking advantage of you. If they come to you, walk away to your other friends.How do you deal with friends who only want to be friends when the time is right for them?
You just be honest. Friendship is reciprocal. If it's on their terms all the time....let them know that their schedule isnt working for you.
tell them never your friends are not no being friend everyother day stupid
just continue being their friends and over time they'll understand what a great friend u are and hopefully, fully appriciate u (thx for the answer(:.)