So today this girl who's one of my better friends announced to my face that she ';didn't want to be friends with me anymore because I was uncool, we hade never ';clicked'; and were ';drifting apart.'; I guess I was somewhat relieved because ever since thanksgiving she refuses to respond to my texts and emails and whenever I have spoken to her lately she rolls her eyes and basically tells me to f off with her body language. It hurts because we wers such good friends before, she was like a sister to me and she was such a sunny, happy, person. I never thought that this would ever happen. But I guess it was all a lie. She might have been pretending the entire time. But I just can't get over it. All of my other friends think she's perfect and that its' my fault because she would ';never do something like that';. I have cried a little about it, she meaned so much to me. But now I guess I know who my true friends are. I just want to be able to move on without this being so painful, but how?How to deal? Friend issues, I feel as if I am to blame though I did absolutely nothing? ?
Aw I'm sorry. This probably isn't what you want to hear, but if she's acting like that it's basically over...for now. The same thing happened to me. We were neighbors and had been best friends since we were like 4 years old. We spent the night at each others houses like every weekend, talked about everything, and had so much fun together. Never went to the same school though. In 7th grade, she stopped talking to me and started avoiding me. I tried to talk to her on AIM but she said some really mean things to me and blocked me. If I emailed her she would either not respond or tell me to get over it. I cried, a lot, and tried to ask her what happened but my weakness just made her keep being a bit** to me. A few weeks ago, and last night, she started texting me. Not sure why. Just forget about her until she starts being nicer to you again. To help, put all the stuff she gave you/reminds you of her in a box, and shove it back in your closet. Don't ever look at it and you won't think of her so much. That's what I did. Good luck. Hope you feel better.How to deal? Friend issues, I feel as if I am to blame though I did absolutely nothing? ?
i'm sorry to say dear, there isn't much you can do.
i know how hard it is to move on, and i've cried of my friends WAYYY more than i've cried over boys.
it hurts, and i know how it feels.
:(
try your best, find new friends perhaps.
it isn't easy, but right now it's your only option.
best of luck love.%26lt;3
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