How do you deal with Friends breakups?

I usually listen to the friend who had their breakup but do no comfort them, as i know that to breakup then something was wrong in the first place and they are mature enough to deal with their emotions!





A friend of mine said that she would be more willing to listen and comfort the other person...





How do you deal with a friends breakup and whats the advice you might give?How do you deal with Friends breakups?
I tell them the 'bus' story looool





and I go out with them.. and we laugh... we sing to breakup songs, and we write lists on how much of a loser he is...





also we trash his physical appearance... even if he's Mr Universe, he will get trashed lol





and we watch lots and lots of chickflicks...How do you deal with Friends breakups?
I always try to encourage my friend that they have more to offer. Try to help them with their self esteem at the time. I tell them that they can get better. We get dressed and go out, so that I can help them take their mind off of the problem. And I tell them to be patient if its meant to be it will work out on its own and if its not meant to be God has something better in store for them. Like Im telling you I will sleep over her house, we will go out. I introduce them to new people. Tell them to listen to music that empowers you. I have this ability to bounce back from a relationship quickly soooo they usually listen to my advice because I am honest with them. Why be with someone or want someone that hurt you or doesnt want you. Why waste your time on someone who doesnt deserve you....Why stress out about someone when they are obviously sleeping so peacefully??? Why should you ruin urself for such a selfish person. No one can touch/phase you...its all in ur head. Sometimes you have to get a grip on ur heart and just block everything out.





I say always think of the bad times when you are feeling sad. Think of the negative things he has said to you when you feel like u miss him. Think of the times he has hurt you instead of the good times. This is motivation, it helps u move on...
Of course listening is the best thing you can do. You shouldn't mention anything about being happy with your boyfriend because it would make them feel bad. Be affectionate, give good advice and be positive in the things that you say..Let them cry, tell them it's gonna hurt but that it will be over soon.
I give my friends advice on what to do when they r in a situation like that. Some don't listen to me and most of those who listen to me my advice works for them.
they say i am a good listen, i listen to their problems but don't give advise unless its something i know of





because we dont know what really exactly happened between the two and we din't know how they are feeling
Sheeze ...remind me never to break up with Tia ! lol I guess that isn't something that happens a lot at my age .....if it does I keep my distance as far as advice is concerned !


It can only lead to trouble....
I don't like pushing anyone, so I'll keep a distance unless she/he wants me to interfere.
i don't like to interfere :)