Wednesday, August 11, 2010

How do you deal with friends that tell all their drama in their life?

there is this girl at my school that has way to much drama in her life and tells me and my friend all of it. What do we do?!?!?How do you deal with friends that tell all their drama in their life?
First of all, you'll learn as you grow up into adulthood that a sense of privacy and self-esteem are connected. Second, your friend is most likely reaching out to you and your girlfriends because of lack of attention at home. It's not your fault or your responsibility to listen; but if you do decide to listen just be quite, nod your head for a few minutes and then say you have to go. Personal privacy is very important to each of us and those that constantly seem to be reaching out or dumping their ';drama'; on others are doing so probably due to lack of attention at home. Again, it's not your job to listen; your job is to be respectfull and take care of your self.

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