Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Please help.. please.. all parents please read this i really need advice on how to deal with this?

Okay so 5 of my girl friends and 2 of my guy friends plus my boyfriend were all gonna go to the movies with me friday to see The Last Song. I asked my dad if I could go and he was gonna drive me there and see a different movie. I told him I would text him every 5 minutes and tell him whats going on and i would give him a detailed description of the movie afterwards just so that he would trust that i was going to really watch the movie, even if my boyfriend really was there. Everything was pretty much set, but then my step mom said she didnt trust me and then said i was not allowed to be seen in public with a boy because i was ';only 15.'; my dad didnt say anything to her he just let her decide and my dad was gonna let me go. What should i do about my step mom? She;s just plain hateful. Also the school year is almost over and i've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months.. and i dont know how i'll be able to see him during the summer. and i really do love him. Do parents even remember their first love? I don't want to sneak behind their backs but thats whats going to happen.. Advice? also when my parents told me no, i calmly said okay and left the room. i've never yelled at my parents or told them i hate them even though i really hate my step mom. like no lie, i hate her.Please help.. please.. all parents please read this i really need advice on how to deal with this?
I'd suggest you try and talk to your parents. have a speech planned out, rehearsed and everything. Then when they still say no, go behind their back. You shouldnt let your parents be in the way of your love and all that stuff. You're 15, it's what you do in high school. You'll look back one day, and remember how glad you are to have not let your boyfriend go. ..


im not sure, that's just my opinion, cuz i know i won't let boyfriends get in the way of school study and stuff..Please help.. please.. all parents please read this i really need advice on how to deal with this?
i would sit both your dad and step mom down and tell them your old enough to go to the movies alone and have a boyfriend.





see what they say?





Does your step mom have kids?





Does she even know what its like to raise kids?








Dont blame it all on yor step mom....she is just trying to do the best for you. She doesnt hate you..trust me
why don't you sit down with you dad and explain to him how you don't like how your step mom doesn't trust you if she has no reason not to. explain to him how you be dating him for 9 months bring him around a few times so he meets him let him have that whole talk with him then see if you can go out with him over the summer and all that.





Good Luck!! step moms suck!!!!
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