I have this friend, who I have known for a long time. And lately he hasn't been acting himself, he's starting to drift away from my circle of friends, he apparently disrespects us behind our backs, and he's basically breaking character. Is there anyway I can help him?How do i deal with friends that are going distant?
ask him why he will behave like that and tell him that his behavior make you feel uncomfortable and you hope he will changeHow do i deal with friends that are going distant?
Character changes. Especially when you are young. People grow out of things and into new things. If he disrespects you I would say he is not worth having as a friend. Move on and enjoy the true ones that you do have. If he is doing something unhealthy to himself you can maybe try to express some concern if that is what you feel but most people don't want to hear it.
perhaps your friend is just trying to fit into a new crowd and might think its cool to disrespect you (a long time buddy). maybe you should hang out with your friend alone and just kinda bring up the subject and ask him whats up. but make sure when you do talk to him that it doesn't seem like you're attacking and blaming him cuz that will only push him away more. just mention that you miss hanging out with him and stuff like that... he'll realize that he needs his real friends :)
Unfortunately no. You can't make anyone do anything....BUT.....you can talk to him and tell him how you guys are feeling and ask her what's up with him and his behavior. If he is not willing to try and work to save the friendship, just let him go. He will realize how good of a friend you were. Sometimes friends drift and come back....some times they just drift and never do. But the best thing to do would be to talk.
Ask him or walk straight up to him and ask him why are you doing this?? IT could be from growing out of stuff or trying to hang out with a cool group of people and if he is aboard talk to him after school,text him ,go to his house and ask him
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