How do you deal with friends who hate each other?

I have this friend who has been my BFF for along time, but my other friend rats on her alot and calls her preppy and totally hates her. they both hate each other! i dont know what to do!!!How do you deal with friends who hate each other?
i have the same problem.my friend jamie hates my friend payton but then again i hate payton too.she is stupid and mean and lies.i have hated her all the time but i dont know how to end our friendship and if i do then i only have one friend.i wont end it.heres how to make thepoblem go away.next time the friend says ';';shes all peppy and i hate her she is too happy and peppy. say';stop it shes my friend and i love her as if she was my sister!im standing up for her and if u dont like her then tough sh*t shes my friend and shes been for along time.so dont rat on her cuz if u are rating on her.ur rating on me!';say it and she will KNOW to stop it because she doesnt want to see her friend leave her!How do you deal with friends who hate each other?
Have all of you get together and just talk!


Try to find what the real problem is and


how to resolve it but if it doesn't work out


try to find a way for both of them to not


kill each other LOL


It might be a little daring to do this but it


is neccesary!


Good Luck! XD



ignor em
theres nothing you can do if they dont get along! But be straight with them, and tell them both that you dont want to get caught in the middle. Hopefully they`ll understand, and wont make you chose.


Good luck!


xox
You don't hangout with them together, or talk about the other one when you are with the other. If they can't stop talking about hating one another to you, then tell them you are tired of hearing it because you want to be friends with them both.
if they hate each other, try to help them to work it out and see why they do. if that doesnt work, then i guess you're going to have to pick a friend from the two.
basically see them at different times days . anything try not to be in the middle of thier bickering. it will just make things difficult with them individually.





good luck
OMG!!! How funny, I have the same issue. Make separate time for each of them. Don't talk to one about the other. If they both have to be somewhere for you ask them to put their differences aside for your sake. Ask them both to respect you enough to not put you in the middle. If they wanna strap, let them...other than that their just talking mess.





LOL, I have a best friend, and 3 very close friends. 2 of the close friends hate the best friend. And 2 of the close friends hate each other. I had a going away party when i was coming to Iraq and they were all there. (I finally got a picture with all 5 of us.) We all sat around the table drinking and playing cards and just having a good time. They all came together for me.
Stay out of it and looks for healthier friends! They'll turn on you too one day.
o my gosh v r so in da same boat gurlfren...just deal them in seperate ways n never ever discuss bout each other or about getting to getter.





i knw its hard to b that way but v need to accept that they r happy that way!!





gudluck gurlfren!!